Stop Caretaking the Borderline Or Narcissist Book
Score: 4
From 4 Ratings

Stop Caretaking the Borderline Or Narcissist

  • Author : Margalis Fjelstad
  • Publisher : Rowman & Littlefield
  • Release Date : 2013
  • Genre: Family & Relationships
  • Pages : 229
  • ISBN 10 : 9781442220188

Stop Caretaking the Borderline Or Narcissist Excerpt :

People with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorders are master manipulators; Caretakers fall for them every time. This book helps Caretakers break the cycle and puts them on a new path of personal freedom, discovery, and self-awareness, through the use of real stories and practical suggestions from a seasoned therapist.

Healing from a Narcissistic Relationship Book

Healing from a Narcissistic Relationship

  • Author : Margalis Fjelstad
  • Publisher : Rowman & Littlefield Publishers
  • Release Date : 2019-10-16
  • Genre: Uncategoriezed
  • Pages : 254
  • ISBN 10 : 1538136651

Healing from a Narcissistic Relationship Excerpt :

Recovering from any broken relationship is difficult, but when one partner is a narcissist, extracting yourself from the union and healing from the emotional damage can be overwhelming. Using stories from her practice, Margalis Fjelstad helps "caretakers" heal from their broken relationships and navigate the rocky waters post-break up.

Raising Resilient Children with a Borderline or Narcissistic Parent Book

Raising Resilient Children with a Borderline or Narcissistic Parent

  • Author : Margalis Fjelstad
  • Publisher : Rowman & Littlefield
  • Release Date : 2020-11-03
  • Genre: Family & Relationships
  • Pages : 234
  • ISBN 10 : 9781538127643

Raising Resilient Children with a Borderline or Narcissistic Parent Excerpt :

Being partnered with a narcissist or borderline personality can be hard enough, but learning how to shield children from the fallout is paramount. Here, the authors show readers how to manage parenting when a narcissistic or borderline partner is part of the equation. Life in a narcissistic family system is at best challenging, and too often filled with chaos, isolation, emotional outbursts, and rigid controlling behaviors. It is too often devoid of peace and emotional safety. In the worst outcomes, children in these families grow up with low self-worth, issues with trust and belonging, and a lack of self-compassion. They are at significant risk of carrying the cycle forward and having poor adult relationships. This book offers a way to intervene and disrupt the cycle of negative outcomes for children. Written by two family therapists who bring a combined total of sixty years of clinical practice with individuals and families, the book pulls no punches, giving clear-headed advice, easy to follow actions to help children, and an abundance of teaching examples. Instead of the doom and gloom scenarios often presented about life with a narcissist or borderline, this book provides a much more positive outlook, and most importantly, it offers hope and a path to an entirely different outcome for the family members. Supported by current research in neuroscience, mindfulness and parenting information, the book focuses on teaching resilience and self-compassion to raise emotionally healthy children, even in a narcissistic family system. It starts by helping parents get a clear understanding of what they face with a narcissistic or borderline partner. There is no room here for denial, but there are also many options to explore. It explains how and why the narcissistic family system functions so poorly for raising healthy children, and pinpoints the deficits while providing information on how to intervene more effectively for the benefit of the children. Using their years of ex

The Narcissist in Your Life Book

The Narcissist in Your Life

  • Author : Julie L. Hall
  • Publisher : Da Capo Lifelong Books
  • Release Date : 2019-12-03
  • Genre: Psychology
  • Pages : 320
  • ISBN 10 : 9780738285788

The Narcissist in Your Life Excerpt :

A highly illuminating examination of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and its insidiously traumatic impact on family members and partners. Packed with insight, compassion, and practical strategies for recovery, this is a must-read for survivors and clinicians alike. Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) has a profoundly dehumanizing effect on those subject to its distortions, manipulations, and rage. The Narcissist in Your Life illuminates the emotionally annihilating experience of narcissistic abuse in families and relationships, acknowledges the complex emotional and physical trauma that results, and assists survivors with compassionate, practical advice on the path of recovery. Whether you are just learning about NPD, managing a narcissistic parent or other family member, leaving a narcissistic relationship, or struggling with complex PTSD, you will find life-changing answers to these common questions: What are the different forms of NPD? Is my partner a narcissist? Why do I keep attracting narcissistic personalities? How can I help my kids? What happens in a narcissistic family? Why did my other parent go along with the abuse? Why am I alienated from my siblings? Why is it so hard to believe in myself and my future? What is complex PTSD and do I have it? What are the health problems associated with narcissistic abuse? Journalist, survivor, and NPD trauma coach Julie L. Hall provides a comprehensive, up-to-date, affirming, and accessible guide that will not only help you understand narcissistic abuse trauma, but will help you overcome trauma cycles and move forward with healing.

When Hope is Not Enough  Second Edition Book

When Hope is Not Enough Second Edition

  • Author : Bon Dobbs
  • Publisher :
  • Release Date : 2015-08-06
  • Genre: Self-Help
  • Pages : 254
  • ISBN 10 : 9781329444096

When Hope is Not Enough Second Edition Excerpt :

"This book is about living with, and loving, someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (abbreviated as BPD and also know as Emotional Regulation Disorder). The purpose of this book is to share effective tools and strategies to make your life easier in your relationship with this person."--Preface.

Understanding the Borderline Mother Book
Score: 4.5
From 7 Ratings

Understanding the Borderline Mother

  • Author : Christine Ann Lawson
  • Publisher : Rowman & Littlefield
  • Release Date : 2002
  • Genre: Psychology
  • Pages : 350
  • ISBN 10 : 9780765703316

Understanding the Borderline Mother Excerpt :

The first love in our lives is our mother. Recognizing her face, her voice, the meaning of her moods, and her facial expressions is crucial to survival. Dr. Christine Ann Lawson vividly describes how mothers who suffer from borderline personality disorder produce children who may flounder in life even as adults, futilely struggling to reach the safety of a parental harbor, unable to recognize that their borderline parent lacks a pier, or even a discernible shore. Four character profiles describe different symptom clusters that include the waif mother, the hermit mother, the queen mother, and the witch. Children of borderlines are at risk for developing this complex and devastating personality disorder themselves. Dr. Lawson's recommendations for prevention include empathic understanding of the borderline mother and early intervention with her children to ground them in reality and counteract the often dangerous effects of living with a make-believe mother. Some readers may recognize their mothers as well as themselves in this book. They will also find specific suggestions for creating healthier relationships. Addressing the adult children of borderlines and the therapists who work with them, Dr. Lawson shows how to care for the waif without rescuing her, to attend to the hermit without feeding her fear, to love the queen without becoming her subject, and to live with the witch without becoming her victim. A Jason Aronson Book

The Narcissistic   Borderline Couple Book

The Narcissistic Borderline Couple

  • Author : Joan Lachkar
  • Publisher : Routledge
  • Release Date : 2004-06
  • Genre: Psychology
  • Pages : 249
  • ISBN 10 : 9781135952167

The Narcissistic Borderline Couple Excerpt :

In this second edition of her groundbreaking book, Dr. Joan Lachkar addresses the ever-changing faces and phases of narcissism within the context of marital therapy and discusses the new developments in the treatment of marital conflict. Drawing from many different theoretical frameworks, mainly self-psychology (Kohut) and object relations (Klein), the works of D.W, Winnicott, and Kernberg are expanded to further explain why couples stay in painful, conflictual, never-ending relationships (traumatic bonding). The new chapters, case illustrations, and updated treatment sequences are invaluable to both beginning and experienced clinicians. The Narcissistic / Borderline Couple is an essential text for every marital therapist, offering an improved understanding of marital pathology within the framework of our changing world.

The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder Book

The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder

  • Author : Randi Kreger
  • Publisher : Simon and Schuster
  • Release Date : 2009-06-03
  • Genre: Family & Relationships
  • Pages : 304
  • ISBN 10 : 9781592857838

The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder Excerpt :

Gentle counsel and realistic advice for families contending with one of today's most misunderstood forms of mental illness. "Randi Kreger has done it again! With her new book, she continues to make the dynamics of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) readily accessible to those of us who love, live with and treat people who suffer from this complex condition." Blaise Aguirre, MD, Medical Director, Adolescent Dialectical Behavior Therapy Residential Program, McLean Hospital"Kreger's communication techniques, grounded in the latest research, provide family members with the essential ability to regain a genuine, meaningful relationship with their loved one with Borderline Personality Disorder." Debra Resnick, Psy.D., President, Psychological Services and Human Development Center"This book offers hope for those who think their situation has none." Rachel Reiland, author of Get Me Out of Here: My Recovery from Borderline Personality DisorderFor family members of people with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), home life is routinely unpredictable and frequently unbearable. Extreme mood swings, impulsive behaviors, unfair blaming and criticism, and suicidal tendencies common conduct among those who suffer from the disorder leave family members feeling confused, hurt, and helpless.In Stop Walking on Eggshells, Randi Kreger's pioneering first book which sold more than 340,000 copies, she and co-author Paul T. Mason outlined the fundamental differences in the way that people with BPD relate to the world. Now, with The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder, Kreger takes readers to the next level by offering them five straightforward tools to organize their thinking, learn specific skills, and focus on what they need to do to get off the emotional rollercoaster:Take care of yourselfUncover what keeps you feeling stuckCommunicate to be heardSet limits with loveReinforce the right behaviorsTogether the steps provide a clear-cut system designed to help frie

Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder Book
Score: 5
From 1 Ratings

Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder

  • Author : Shari Y. Manning
  • Publisher : Guilford Press
  • Release Date : 2011-08-18
  • Genre: Psychology
  • Pages : 253
  • ISBN 10 : 1606234862

Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder Excerpt :

People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) can be intensely caring, warm, smart, and funny—but their behavior often drives away those closest to them. If you're struggling in a tumultuous relationship with someone with BPD, this is the book for you. Dr. Shari Manning helps you understand why your spouse, family member, or friend has such out-of-control emotions—and how to change the way you can respond. Learn to use simple yet powerful strategies that can defuse crises, establish better boundaries, and radically transform your relationship. Empathic, hopeful, and science based, this is the first book for family and friends grounded in dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), the most effective treatment for BPD.

The Narcissist s Playbook Book

The Narcissist s Playbook

  • Author : Dana Morningstar
  • Publisher : Morningstar Media
  • Release Date : 2019-05-15
  • Genre: Self-Help
  • Pages : 324
  • ISBN 10 : 978186723xxxx

The Narcissist s Playbook Excerpt :

Do you have a narcissist, sociopath, or psychopath in your life, or think that you might? Do you continually feel anxious around someone in your life, but can’t pinpoint why? Do conversations seem to go off track, leaving you feeling knocked off balance and confused? Does it feel like they are making your life a living hell, but they insist that you are too sensitive, crazy, or to blame? Perhaps you know you are being manipulated or abused, but don’t know how to make it stop. The Narcissist’s Playbook can help. Dana Morningstar is a domestic violence advocate, author, podcaster, YouTuber, speaker, and group leader. She writes from personal as well as professional experience in the field of domestic violence awareness, narcissistic abuse, and advocacy. Some of the topics covered in The Narcissist’s Playbook are: -What manipulation is and isn’t. -How to spot manipulative behaviors early (and why most people struggle with this). -How and why people get caught up with manipulators, and why they have a hard time breaking free. -How to identify the emotional “hook” that is keeping you stuck in manipulation and what you can do about it. - How to effectively disable manipulation as it is happening. - How to identify the common personality traits that are frequently exploited by manipulators. You can take back your life. The Narcissist’s Playbook tells you how.

How to Be an Adult in Relationships Book
Score: 4.5
From 3 Ratings

How to Be an Adult in Relationships

  • Author : David Richo
  • Publisher : Shambhala Publications
  • Release Date : 2021-11-02
  • Genre: Self-Help
  • Pages : 313
  • ISBN 10 : 9781611809541

How to Be an Adult in Relationships Excerpt :

This beloved book has touched hundreds of thousands of lives with its profound and actionable advice. Retaining the core message of becoming more mindful in our relationships, this edition includes new and revised material that addresses how we live and love today. A new preface touches on David Richo’s experience with the book over time and outlines the key updates, including attention to online dating and modern communication styles as well as new perspectives on anger and ending relationships. “Most people think of love as a feeling,” says Richo, “but love is not so much a feeling as a way of being present.” How to Be an Adult in Relationships explores five hallmarks of mindful loving and how they play a key role in our relationships. Adult love is based on a mutual commitment to what Richo calls the “five A’s”: attention, acceptance, appreciation, affection, and allowing. Brimming with practical exercises for couples and singles, How to Be an Adult in Relationships offers heartening insights into a lifelong journey of love. Topics include: • Becoming conscious of our relationship patterns and how they relate to childhood • Recognizing and attracting someone who can show adult love • Understanding the phases relationships go through • Creating and maintaining healthy boundaries • Overcoming fears of abandonment and engulfment • Expressing anger and other emotions in adult and loving ways • Surviving break-ups with our self-esteem intact • Understanding love as a spiritual journey

Surviving a Borderline Parent Book
Score: 4
From 4 Ratings

Surviving a Borderline Parent

  • Author : Kimberlee Roth
  • Publisher :
  • Release Date : 2009-12
  • Genre: Education
  • Pages : 358
  • ISBN 10 : 9781458747464

Surviving a Borderline Parent Excerpt :

Those raised by a BPD parent endured a volatile and painful childhood. This book offers readers step-by-step guidance to understanding and overcoming the lasting effects of being raised by a person with this disorder. Readers discover coping strategies for dealing with low self-esteem, lack of trust, guilt, and hypersensitivity....

Narcissistic Abuse Book

Narcissistic Abuse

  • Author : Brenda Sanders
  • Publisher : Independently Published
  • Release Date : 2019-06-10
  • Genre: Uncategoriezed
  • Pages : 140
  • ISBN 10 : 1077495595

Narcissistic Abuse Excerpt :

★★ Buy the Paperback Version of this Book and get the Kindle Book Version for FREE ★★Are you currently recovering from a narcissist? Looking for a guide which clearly breaks down their destructive behaviours - along with how to stop them? With a motivational undertone designed to help you recover from a Toxic Relationship, Narcissistic Abuse: Understanding Narcissism and 7 Steps to Take Your Revenge With a Narcissist While Recovering from Toxic Relationships will unveil the secrets of narcissistic behaviour - and the powerful steps that you can take to stop them in their tracks! Inside the pages of this practical and enlightening book, you'll discover all you need to know about narcissists and their damaging forms of abuse, including: Identifying and Understanding Narcissists and Their Behaviours The 6 Tell-tale Traits That Narcissist Look For in Their Victims Narcissist Warning Signs - How to Know if You're Stuck in Their Web The Different Ways Narcissists Get Into Your Head Developing the Mindset to Take Back the Control of Your Life The Vulnerable Points of a Narcissist ...And The 7 Powerful Steps You Can Use to Take Your Revenge! From understanding the way that narcissists isolate and control their victims, to the methods you need to take to break free, this book is a powerful and detailed guide designed to help you develop your mindset, identify narcissistic behaviours, and reclaim control of your life and future! Don't waste your time - rediscover your self-worth, break free, and recover from narcissistic abuse with this incredible book. ★★ If you want to get on the road to a better life, then Scroll Up and Click the Buy Now Button ★★

Stop Walking on Eggshells Book
Score: 4
From 6 Ratings

Stop Walking on Eggshells

  • Author : Paul T. Mason (M.S.)
  • Publisher : New Harbinger Publications
  • Release Date : 2010
  • Genre: Self-Help
  • Pages : 283
  • ISBN 10 : 9781572246904

Stop Walking on Eggshells Excerpt :

Discusses the signs and symptoms of borderline personality disorder and explains how the families and friends of patients can cope with BPD behavior while taking care of themselves.

Overcoming Borderline Personality Disorder Book
Score: 3.5
From 3 Ratings

Overcoming Borderline Personality Disorder

  • Author : Valerie Porr, M.A.
  • Publisher : Oxford University Press
  • Release Date : 2010-07-30
  • Genre: Psychology
  • Pages : 424
  • ISBN 10 : 0199752508

Overcoming Borderline Personality Disorder Excerpt :

Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is characterized by unstable moods, negative self-image, dangerous impulsivity, and tumultuous relationships. Many people with BPD excel in academics and careers while revealing erratic, self-destructive, and sometimes violent behavior only to those with whom they are intimate. Others have trouble simply holding down a job or staying in school. Overcoming Borderline Personality Disorder is a compassionate and informative guide to understanding this profoundly unsettling--and widely misunderstood--mental illness, believed to affect approximately 6% of the general population. Rather than viewing people with BPD as manipulative opponents in a bitter struggle, or pitying them as emotional invalids, Valerie Porr cites cutting-edge science to show that BPD is a true neurobiological disorder and not, as many come to believe, a character flaw or the result of bad parenting. Porr then clearly and accessibly explains what BPD is, which therapies have proven effective, and how to rise above the weighty stigma associated with the disorder. Offering families and loved ones supportive guidance that both acknowledges the difficulties they face and shows how they can be overcome, Porr teaches empirically-supported and effective coping behaviors and interpersonal skills, such as new ways of talking about emotions, how to be aware of nonverbal communication, and validating difficult experiences. These skills are derived from Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Mentalization-based Therapy, two evidence-based treatments that have proven highly successful in reducing family conflict while increasing trust. Overcoming Borderline Personality Disorder is an empowering and hopeful resource for those who wish to gain better understanding of the BPD experience--and to make use of these insights in day-to-day family interactions. Winner of the ABCT Self Help Book Seal of Merit Award 2011